There is a famous quote to C JoyBell C: “You can
talk someone for years, every day, and still it won’t mean as what you can have
when you sit in front of someone; not saying a word, yet you feel that person
with your heart, you feel like you have known that person for forever…...connections
are made with the heart, not the tongue.”
Sometimes when we feel anxious we start finding
excuses to escape certain situations. All this happens because we are not sure
of ourselves, and we are scared of our friends, relatives and even family.
You may not need to call or meet your friends or
relatives every day to keep your relations strong and alive. But you need to be
true to the bond that keeps your relationship alive and everlasting. I think if
you declare somebody as your own, it means you must have a mutual
understanding, and if you have that, there’s no need to give excuses or
explanations.
Those who love you, understand you, and need you,
will never ask for it. Having said that, one must also keep in mind that those
who don’t care about you don’t deserve justifications or excuses. If you need
to make someone understand you role or participation, if you are forced to
justify yourself, or if you are lying because of fear then you need to think
again about that relationship.
This doesn't mean that you do not even try to make
things work. What it means is that you should question whether there is love, a
strong bond or a sense of satisfaction between you and that person. If yes,
then hold on to that relationship till last breath. If not, it’s better to
leave before it’s too late.
