Friday, June 19, 2015
Connect with your soul through yoga and meditation
Tuesday, June 2, 2015
In matters of trust, you need to be highly choosy
We all have to go through situations of trust and distrust. That is as inevitable as love and hate periods in life. Trust and distrust create scenarios that make the best use of. History tells us that trust and distrust have equally been used or misused to one's advantage.
Just as trust helps bridging gaps of misunderstanding between individuals, distrust makes one feel lonely and dejected. You distrust someone and a chain reaction sets in. As a result, life's journey and its noble purposes go haywire.
George Eliot, in her study of life's vicissitudes in the case of two principal characters in her novel, Middlemarch, portrays this inevitably sad story of life: "He distrusted her affection; and what loneliness is lonelier than distrust?"
True, distrust can't be taken as a negative trait all the time. At times, it becomes important that one gets to understand the turns of life when distrust could be the only weapon of protection for survival and for leading a peaceful life. You may be quite positive and even meaning well for the rest of the world, but that does not mean that you won't be taken for a ride.
You have to be positively discriminating to safeguard yourself. Shakespeare's wisdom, in 'All is well that ends well ', says, "Love all, but trust a few." There is no possibility of any harm coming your way when it comes to your loving even the whole world, but blind trust could lead to horrible consequences one could have never thought of. As someone said, trust is like a mirror, you can fix it if it broken, but the cracks will be staring at you, to torment you until your last breath.